Tuesday, 29 September 2015

Where did I disappear to and a slight change in blogging direction

Finally I get around to sort of updating my blog as I promised (numerous times) and sharing where I disappeared to and what I have been up to. Where to begin? So much to say yet so little time.

As I mentioned in my last two posts, I am now living in the US, somewhere in the Southeast, working really hard on my Southern accent and of course failing rather comically. Imagine an English accent attempting to replicate a Southern accent. Not very successful and rather comical eh? I can officially comfortably drive on American highways. I was initially absolutely terrified of them and swore off them. Oh the irony! These days if my route doesn't involve me getting me on the highway, I am not amused. I get such a rush when I can drive at 70 mph/112 km/h and incredibly frustrated when I have to drive at 25 mph/ 40 km/h in a school zone when the lights are flashing.

I think I am almost used to not seeing familiar brands in the stores and finally content with substitutes. I have realised that I am asking for less and less things from home. I still refuse to let go of the metric system. Thank heaven for the converter app on my phone. I also still refuse to change my laptop and phone's keyboards from UK English to US English. I am now in a fulfilling relationship with Walmart, at least it is not an abusive relationship like it was with the R5/$0.50 Chinese stores in Cape Town. I talk briefly about the relationship in my random things about me list here, number 6.  I can get just about anything there and at a great price. If I am to be honest though, I go there mostly because it never fails to deliver laugh and shock wise. Some of the theatrics I have seen there! Only in Walmart!

My move came as a surprise, one I was not expecting. A few years ago if you had asked me whether I would consider moving here the answer would have been a resounding no! And then, the possibility of a move came out of nowhere. I didn't take it seriously at first and almost didn't pursue it. However, when I thought about it a bit deeper, I realised that it was a sign to pursue my dreams and realistically if I was to realise them on the scale that I want to, I would have had to move here. The move and preparation for it was all really a blur and reality only sunk in when I was on my 8 hour flight to Amsterdam and another 8 hour one to my current city.

Tuesday, 8 September 2015

The return that never seems to be happening

I knoooooow I have severally promised that I will return to blogging. Most of my (not so) recent posts have started with how sorry I am for not writing, how time has flown and promises that I will get around to writing. Alas, I have not been heard from. If you have been reading my blog long enough, you would by now know that I am hanging my head in shame. Haha?

Life has been extremely busy. As I mentioned in my previous post, I moved to the US and it has been a move filled with surprises. Initially many unpleasant ones and many a time I wanted to just pack my bags and head back home. I somehow stuck it out and now, while there still are a few unpleasant surprises, there have been and continue to be many pleasant ones. I am really growing to enjoy my new home. Finally and slowly I am realising, the dreams that brought me here in the first place, I almost feel like I am being welcomed to the rest of my life.

The most pleasant and unexpected surprise has been growth on a rather deep level: spiritually, emotionally, mentally and sexually. My next post (I am not making promises as to when that will be. I mean, look at my track record) will discuss this growth, where I have been, what I have been up to, where I am headed in more detail.

Relationship and kink wise, I have plenty to share, I just need to find the time. In my previous post I mentioned having a sexy submissive man in my life, I'll nickname him Wall Street Sub, for obvious reasons. It has been a rather interesting relationship. Things somewhat ended between us about two months ago and somehow, we reconnected recently and while we are supposed to be just friends this time around, we are slowly drifting off to where we used to be, no commitment this time however. I cannot think of any 'just friends' who indulge in very dirty talk, want to fuck and kink each others' brains out, send each other rather saucy photos and very raunchy kinky porn images, gifs or videos. The jury is still out on how I feel about this. I like it and at the same time don't like it. This man who I did not see having a lasting fling, leave alone casual relationship with has really surprised me and helped me learn a lot about myself! The greatest perk being his friendship and a blank canvas I may have corrupted *cheeky grin*.

During the two month break, I met another equally sexy man who happened to be a sissy!